Wednesday, June 29, 2011

The Secrets of Successful Asian Online Dating

If you have been browsing through many Asian online dating sites yet have no luck in finding Asian woman that you connected to in a social and emotional level, then today maybe your lucky day because by browsing through our unique online dating and Asian matchmaking site www.asiansbeauties.com you will come across profiles of real beautiful women from sexy Filipinas and Thais to exotic Vietnamese and Indonesians to attractive Chinese and Cambodians and many more real profiles of Asian women. You will have access to hundreds of profiles that you can check and then you can chat with these real women looking for friendship, dating and even romance!

But before you contact someone, we have the following tips for you as we reveal the secrets of successful Asian online dating.

Tip No 1. – Asian women appreciates it if you make the effort to learn their language, so even if you only know two lines of Chinese, Filipino or Thai etc by using these lines you are pleasing and impressing these women. Contact them using their own language in can be as simple as greeting them ‘Hi’ ‘Hello’ or ‘How are you?’ but in their own language, by doing this you are already a cut above the rest of the gentlemen that are trying to vie for their attention and chances are the lady of your interest will respond back to your message.

Example if your interested in Filipina Dating:

  • “Hi, how are you? Can we chat?” – “Hi, kumusta ka? Puede makipag-chat?”
  • “Thank you for your time” – “Salamat sa iyong oras.”

This tip can apply to most Asian women regardless the country of origin; you just need to take a bit of effort in knowing greetings or some words in their own language.

Tip No 2 – If after 2 or 3 emails or chats and you and the Asian woman is not connecting in any way, move-on and find some other ladies to save both your time. Finding someone interesting online is the same way as finding someone interesting in your own place, sometimes it does not happen quickly and you have to continue searching and keeping your eyes wide open. 

Tip No 3 – Communicate through various channels – Variety adds spice to almost all things especially relationships. And when it comes to online dating variety can come in the ways you communicate. You can send snail mail or postcard so it will be something different and unexpected, this way she can also have something tangible from you to hold.  This also appeals to her ‘traditional values” as most Asians cherishes the old ways like love letters especially when it comes to the Filipinas. It is also not enough that you exchange emails or chat online; spice it up by utilizing the technology to your advantage. Use skype or any medium that offers free video calls and video chat, this way beside words to connect you two together, both of you will have the advantage of seeing each other’s reactions and faces by way of video chatting or web conferencing. If you will be out for days without access to the internet call her up to let her know she is important to you that you are willing to call her through her phone although it maybe a bit more expensive that using your computer and chat.

Tip No 4: If you and her have been communicating regularly and have become comfortable with each other, you may consider now adding her to your social media accounts and vice versa. By doing so you are allowing each other to have a glimpse of your personal life as social media like facebook, twitter and others lets you in their world. You will also get to see their family and friends and her daily activities. Asian women place high value on family and friends so by connecting to her via these venues and interacting with her friends and family too, you are creating stronger ties with her. And it is also another way of assurance that the Asian lady you like is taking you seriously. If she will not add you then probably she doesn’t want you in her ‘real world’ and does not want to give you a chance to interact with her friends and to know more about her through other people’s perception of her.

Tip No 5: Plan a real life meeting – This may come at a much later date into your online dating relationship, it maybe close to one to two years depending on how you two feel about each other and where you are at in the relationship. There is no clear cut guidelines as to how many months of online dating should pass before you set up a real life meeting but it should happen sometime in the future if both of you are serious and both of you are excited to take the relationship to another level like making her your Filipina bride or a Thai bride. Real life meeting is a must this way you can verify if the connection you have online goes beyond the internet and the telephone wires. This meeting can be a success or a failure so the two of you have to be aware of that and both of you has to expect all scenarios. Planning a real life meeting is also crucial so both of you know what to expect in the future. It would be unfair to you and her if after 5 years of online interactions, online dating and having an online relationship, there is no progress in your status.

We still have more tips for you to make your search for an Asian bride easier and more successful, continue to check our blog page for more updates. In the meantime, head over to our homepage at AsiansBeauties.com and start checking the many available profiles, you will surely be delighted with our results as we are the Best Asian Online Matchmaking site there is today. Start clicking and have more friends, find love and great relationships at http://www.asiansbeauties.com.

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