A Big Yes! Long Distance Relationships Do Work

Long distance relationship can work and it does work. If you are skeptical, just look around you, be observant, there are many examples you can find among the people you encounter everyday, you may even know of couples who started their relationship on long distance yet you see them today, very happy with each other. You can also check our testimonial pages for real life couples who found each other in dating websites like AsiansBeauties.com and go on to live a wonderful union in marriage.  Even decades ago there had been plenty of such stories between couples separated by miles and even oceans yet their relationship develop and thrive despite relying solely on snail mails. How much more today where modern technology is available like the internet, Skype calls, email and chatting which makes it possible to ‘see’ your love one while you talk or at any time of the day you can take out your mobile phone and send SMS or call, right?

If before you expected yourself to marry someone you grew
up with from your old city, now the dating scene has changed dramatically. And long distance relationship is one of the options you have if you are seriously looking for a long term relationship. And by long distance we mean not only someone from the West Coast if you are from the East Coast, we are also talking about finding someone across the continent, and across other countries. That’s why we are here at AsiansBeauties.com to help anyone who wants to meet beautiful and wonderful women from across the globe specifically in Asia as Asian women maybe a good match for you. But how can you make your relationship work if it’s long distance? We offer the following advice:

• It takes maturity

Any relationship survives if the couple involve are both mature enough to accept each other’s good and bad points and is ready to face all the challenges that the relationship will eventually go through. This is one of the reasons why oftentimes, you don’t end up with your high school sweetheart, simply because at that stage, you both are still growing up and is learning the ways of the world, you are still not thinking in terms of long term commitments unlike matured people who have gained enough life experiences and is ready to take relationship more seriously. We advice that you contact someone you believe to already have that mature outlook in life and is serious about working to make a relationship works.

• It takes great amount of trust

If your girlfriend or boyfriend is just a short drive away, it does not exempt you from learning how to trust. Trusting is even crucial for long distant relationship as you don’t see each other often or at all until both of you decide to meet in person. So you have to choose someone that your heart and your instinct tells you she is a keeper.

• Be very clear about expectations

Once you meet someone in one of your chatting sessions or in speed dating events or here in AsiansBeauties.com and the two of you clicked and you want to pursue a more serious relationship, be very clear about expectations. Make sure that you both agree to be either a.) Exclusively together wherein you can’t date any other person, b.) Or you both are allowed to check out and date other girls or guys. You can take it even further and tell the girl that you are after a serious relationship with marriage in mind if it works between you two and that you don’t want to waste your time and her time ‘just playing around’. Expectations if clear to both parties can lead to smoother relationship.

• Regular communication is vital in maintaining a healthy long distance relationship

Constant communication is important especially in relationship separated by miles. You have many options open to you to keep the relationship healthy. Avail of the free emails, free chatting and free video calls that you can find online. Relationship needs communication to grow and be stronger. These lines of communications will bridge the miles separating you. Call her everyday, if for budget reason that is not practical, use Skype or YM messengers and you can even see each other! It’s tough not to be able to hug, cuddle or kiss your love one but a time will come
when you two will be together in the same place. And before that happens, make sure that you take time to know what is happening to each other everyday. It doesn’t have to be hours and hours spent in front of a computer, a quick well thought of email telling her of how your day went is enough to let her know that you are taking the time and the effort to keep her involve in your life. And of course, she should do the same, relationship after all is two way, it needs you and her to make it work.

•  Do things together despite the distance

It is not true that you cannot do things together just because you are far away from each other. If you are both fans of poker, you and her can open a face book account and join a poker game. That way you can play against each other or with one another. Or you can play Farmville and help each other create beautiful farms. It may sound corny to you but it works because it’s another way to connect. It doesn’t even have to be playing games in face book, you can both agree to watch a certain movie at the
same time while video chatting online. Those are only a few examples of what you can do together. Think of more creative ways to spice up your relationship so it will not slip to being boring.

All relationship no matter where you meet your girl or guy be it in the coffee shop or in your work or here at AsiansBeauties.com or during a speed dating event, the fact remains that to make any relationship work, long distance or not, needs time, effort, commitment, maturity, trust and a lot more to grow, deepen and flourish. We sincerely hope that you are soon on your way to finding that one great relationship you always wish you have here at AsiansBeauties.com. And once you do, we invite you to share your story in our testimonial page so others may also be inspired.