Falling in love with a Asian girl is probably your dream come true. After all, who wouldn’t want a gorgeous Asian bride to take home to the United States? Unfortunately, there a number of immigration issues you will need to consider before you can enjoy the life you always wanted.
You probably think that falling in love with a beautiful Filipina lady and bringing her to the United States as your fiancée is likely to be fraught with difficulties.You might have heard horror stories of other men who spent thousands of dollars trying to secure a fiancée visa for their loved one, only to fail and see their stunning new fiancée denied access by the US immigration department.
By far the best way to ensure your sexy new Asian girlfriend is able to travel to the United States as your fiancée is to apply for a K1 visa. It is the fastest and least complicated method, and if you arrange your K1 visa through your membership of the Asians Beauties website, we can offer you the benefit of our wealth of experience with the US immigration service. Over the years, we have helped lots of happy couples embark on a wonderful life of marital bliss we are proud to say that none of our clients has ever had their fiancée visa denied.
A fiancée visa arranged via us will allow your sweet Asian fiancée to enter the United States as your bride to be as quickly as possible. Once she has been granted a K1 visa, she will be able to stay in the US for 90 days, which will give you plenty of time to introduce her to all your envious friends and family, as well as ample opportunity to arrange the wedding of a lifetime.
And once you have finally tied the knot with your gorgeous Asian fiancée, she will be able to apply for permanent residence from US immigration and will be allowed to remain in the country until her application has been processed.
Here at Asians Beauties we firmly believe that love truly should always prevail, so when you are certain you have met the Asian woman of your dreams and no other Asian girl will do, let us know immediately and we can take care of the K1 visa paperwork on your behalf and in no time at all, you and your Asian fiancée can start your married life in the United States.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Dating Tips: Letting a girl know you're for real..
Or better yet, how do you let her know that the vibe you're putting off in the beginning is the real you?
How does she know that after she sleeps with you all of what you said will be backed up?
All three of these questions have the same answer.
Credibility.
When most guys think they don't have enough value, 90% of the time, it's credibility they lack. In fact, most of everything used to create value these days only serves to make a nasty woman-repelling player vibe.
(and anyone who's anyone KNOWS I don't even teach value. Not for a damn second!)
"Player vibe" is not actually a bad vibe, but a mistake in building and maintaining credibility.
Being able to create credibility is one of the key components to sleeping with a girl quickly.
The other component is sexual tension.
And as a good student of pick-up, you know that some women need sexual tension to sleep with you and the other half need credibility first. (You do know that, right?)
So let's get down to it:
There are three levels of credibility.
1. Safety
2. Commonality
3. Direction
Safety: The most basic and fundamental level of credibility, you need to demonstrate SAFETY before a woman will be alone with you and sleep with you.
Commonality: You need to demonstrate commonality in order for a woman to continue sleeping with you, or have a relationship with you.
Direction: You need to show direction in order to get a woman to leave her current boyfriend or change her existing life plans to be with you.
A WORD ABOUT SOCIAL PROGRAMMING ->
You have to realize that every person you meet is socially programmed in a different way. Even you have social programming. We all do.
It's not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, it's very useful.
Realize that although we understand a lot of a woman's behaviors come from her social programming, we can't expect her to realize that.
While men have evolved an instinct to try to sleep with as many women as possible, women have evolved an instinct to choose guys who demonstrate a high chance of sticking around to raise children.
And this instinct is reinforced by social programming.
Her programming is her reality. Her programming is literally her world.
And credibility is about showing you understand her world.
HERE'S AN EXAMPLE ->
Think about if you were in your bedroom. Comfortably warm sitting in a chair.
And then a guy came in. And he said he was cold. And wanted to turn up the heat. Then he told you he liked the couch you were sitting in. And asked if he could urinate in the corner.
You would feel pretty uncomfortable with him. You might even think he's crazy.
He's showing you that he's not seeing the same reality as you. He's "in his own world".
I bet you wouldn't trust a guy like that.
Because he has shown you that he doesn't understand your world, and doesn't respect your world - you probably wouldn't connect with him, or feel like giving him compliance.
This is how women feel when you don't demonstrate credibility.
If she thinks that it's a bad thing for people to kiss and tell (and most women do) -> You should show her you ALSO believe it's bad for people to kiss and tell.
The fact that you have the same perceptions about the world as her will build your credibility immensely.
You can think of the three levels in this way:
Safety - It's safe to have you in her world.
Commonality - You see the same things in her world. (Similar perceptions, values, and goals)
Direction - You have the ability to rearrange and alter her world.
These are best demonstrated in order.
And you can get really good at this. At first, guys are usualy good at meeting a certain kind of woman.
It's because he naturally understands a certain type of worldview.
But as you get good, you'll start to be able to match ANY woman's worldview.
The best way of doing this is by anticipating her thoughts and verbalizing her feelings or views about the world, as if they are your own.
At first you will just be remembering things she's said in the past, and then repeating it after she's forgotten she's said anything.
Then you will get good at pacing her reality and leading. Eventually it gets to the point where you can intuitively understand her reality. Then she will trust you to change it for her. You enter her world, and then start teaching her new
things about HER world.
That's when you know you get this thing.
When someone comes along who understands a woman's reality so well, she doesn't just think he's perceptive and skilled, she just feels a connection.
She thinks "He's just like me!"
This is really the easiest thing in the world. Yet so many people mess it up.
It's a major piece and you'll watch your game improve dramatically once you get this.
How does she know that after she sleeps with you all of what you said will be backed up?
All three of these questions have the same answer.
Credibility.
When most guys think they don't have enough value, 90% of the time, it's credibility they lack. In fact, most of everything used to create value these days only serves to make a nasty woman-repelling player vibe.
(and anyone who's anyone KNOWS I don't even teach value. Not for a damn second!)
"Player vibe" is not actually a bad vibe, but a mistake in building and maintaining credibility.
Being able to create credibility is one of the key components to sleeping with a girl quickly.
The other component is sexual tension.
And as a good student of pick-up, you know that some women need sexual tension to sleep with you and the other half need credibility first. (You do know that, right?)
So let's get down to it:
There are three levels of credibility.
1. Safety
2. Commonality
3. Direction
Safety: The most basic and fundamental level of credibility, you need to demonstrate SAFETY before a woman will be alone with you and sleep with you.
Commonality: You need to demonstrate commonality in order for a woman to continue sleeping with you, or have a relationship with you.
Direction: You need to show direction in order to get a woman to leave her current boyfriend or change her existing life plans to be with you.
A WORD ABOUT SOCIAL PROGRAMMING ->
You have to realize that every person you meet is socially programmed in a different way. Even you have social programming. We all do.
It's not necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, it's very useful.
Realize that although we understand a lot of a woman's behaviors come from her social programming, we can't expect her to realize that.
While men have evolved an instinct to try to sleep with as many women as possible, women have evolved an instinct to choose guys who demonstrate a high chance of sticking around to raise children.
And this instinct is reinforced by social programming.
Her programming is her reality. Her programming is literally her world.
And credibility is about showing you understand her world.
HERE'S AN EXAMPLE ->
Think about if you were in your bedroom. Comfortably warm sitting in a chair.
And then a guy came in. And he said he was cold. And wanted to turn up the heat. Then he told you he liked the couch you were sitting in. And asked if he could urinate in the corner.
You would feel pretty uncomfortable with him. You might even think he's crazy.
He's showing you that he's not seeing the same reality as you. He's "in his own world".
I bet you wouldn't trust a guy like that.
Because he has shown you that he doesn't understand your world, and doesn't respect your world - you probably wouldn't connect with him, or feel like giving him compliance.
This is how women feel when you don't demonstrate credibility.
If she thinks that it's a bad thing for people to kiss and tell (and most women do) -> You should show her you ALSO believe it's bad for people to kiss and tell.
The fact that you have the same perceptions about the world as her will build your credibility immensely.
You can think of the three levels in this way:
Safety - It's safe to have you in her world.
Commonality - You see the same things in her world. (Similar perceptions, values, and goals)
Direction - You have the ability to rearrange and alter her world.
These are best demonstrated in order.
And you can get really good at this. At first, guys are usualy good at meeting a certain kind of woman.
It's because he naturally understands a certain type of worldview.
But as you get good, you'll start to be able to match ANY woman's worldview.
The best way of doing this is by anticipating her thoughts and verbalizing her feelings or views about the world, as if they are your own.
At first you will just be remembering things she's said in the past, and then repeating it after she's forgotten she's said anything.
Then you will get good at pacing her reality and leading. Eventually it gets to the point where you can intuitively understand her reality. Then she will trust you to change it for her. You enter her world, and then start teaching her new
things about HER world.
That's when you know you get this thing.
When someone comes along who understands a woman's reality so well, she doesn't just think he's perceptive and skilled, she just feels a connection.
She thinks "He's just like me!"
This is really the easiest thing in the world. Yet so many people mess it up.
It's a major piece and you'll watch your game improve dramatically once you get this.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Being in love online - A Practical Guide
More and more people these days are finding love online be it due to time constraints, unsociable working hours or simply the death of the community, but one thing is for sure, this is the fastest growing way to meet potential partners, however it has it's pitfalls. Whilst online dating agencies may offer a quick way to meeting these partners, Instant Messaging using programs such as ICQ, MSN, offer a lightning speed way of getting very intimate, very quickly. It is so quick because you can be just who you want to be when you are chatting online, no one will see you blush if you say something wrong and most importantly, it allows you to take risks that you would never dream of taking in the real world. The most powerful aspect of this all though is that we paint our own picture in our minds of what the other person is without all those non-verbal cues such as facial expressions and mannerisms that subconsciously in the real world tell us valuable things about the person. In short, with our own beautifully created perception of the person, fall for them. So why do we as intelligent human beings end up falling for people we have never even met before? The answer is simple we want to be in love, we so want to tell ourselves that the searching for our soul mate is over and with that we picture our lives in a blissful sea of coupled, sharing our lives together. Sadly it is this haste to end our single lives that can lead to disappointment as quickly as it started.
Meeting Your online love for the first time
Sooner or later the question of actually meeting in person will come up and whilst many people would say it's better to take your time and let the online relationship develop, I strongly believe that the sooner you do it, the better. If you leave it too long, then the impression you have built up of this person will be so deep rooted that your expectations will be far too high and you will be set for disappointment. The other point is if you have been a lot more confident chatting than you would be in real life, how are you going to be able to keep up that persona? You may end up competing with yourself. So assuming that you are both happy with the length of time the romance has been going on for and you decide to meet, what will it be like? It will be quite strange to begin with. You may find that although you have been up most nights until 5 in the morning chatting, you find it hard to talk about things in the flesh. This is perfectly natural as the two of you are having to almost re-learn the parameters of the relationship and digest the visual cues that our mannerisms and facial expressions provide. It will be a nerve racking time as we have to decide there and then if these mannerisms and even physical odors are compatible with us. If you can pass that first test, then things get a lot easier. Do however be very careful if you are traveling abroad to meet someone because if things fail at this first hurdle, then you are totally stuck on your own in a foreign country.
Passed first base, what next?
Having gone through this initial nerve racking first meeting, there is often a huge temptation to revert back to an 'online relationship' as it feels so much more comfortable, but I cannot stress enough to resist that temptation. Slip back into the old online chatting routine and the online persona won't die. The transition from online to offline relationship can be extremely difficult but at all costs, you must get to know the real person from a new offline perspective and kill off any false impressions you may have had about them online. Going back to the online chatting routine may make you feel all warm and fuzzy again, but it can be an unrealistic perception of who the person really is.
In Summary
This all may seem a little negative and in some cases may not even apply, but overall, forewarned is forearmed. There are of course many people who have made a success of their relationship by Instant Messaging and some are even married now but it really pays to be aware of how feelings
Meeting Your online love for the first time
Sooner or later the question of actually meeting in person will come up and whilst many people would say it's better to take your time and let the online relationship develop, I strongly believe that the sooner you do it, the better. If you leave it too long, then the impression you have built up of this person will be so deep rooted that your expectations will be far too high and you will be set for disappointment. The other point is if you have been a lot more confident chatting than you would be in real life, how are you going to be able to keep up that persona? You may end up competing with yourself. So assuming that you are both happy with the length of time the romance has been going on for and you decide to meet, what will it be like? It will be quite strange to begin with. You may find that although you have been up most nights until 5 in the morning chatting, you find it hard to talk about things in the flesh. This is perfectly natural as the two of you are having to almost re-learn the parameters of the relationship and digest the visual cues that our mannerisms and facial expressions provide. It will be a nerve racking time as we have to decide there and then if these mannerisms and even physical odors are compatible with us. If you can pass that first test, then things get a lot easier. Do however be very careful if you are traveling abroad to meet someone because if things fail at this first hurdle, then you are totally stuck on your own in a foreign country.
Passed first base, what next?
Having gone through this initial nerve racking first meeting, there is often a huge temptation to revert back to an 'online relationship' as it feels so much more comfortable, but I cannot stress enough to resist that temptation. Slip back into the old online chatting routine and the online persona won't die. The transition from online to offline relationship can be extremely difficult but at all costs, you must get to know the real person from a new offline perspective and kill off any false impressions you may have had about them online. Going back to the online chatting routine may make you feel all warm and fuzzy again, but it can be an unrealistic perception of who the person really is.
In Summary
This all may seem a little negative and in some cases may not even apply, but overall, forewarned is forearmed. There are of course many people who have made a success of their relationship by Instant Messaging and some are even married now but it really pays to be aware of how feelings
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Asian Women
Many men’s food for thought is the question on who is really the right one for them. This is one fact of life; men love beautiful women because that’s their nature. In this regard, Asian women are one desirable thing to consider. Asian women are extremely beautiful and very desirable whether it’s their silk like hairs flowing down their head or their beautiful figures next to Goddess or their exotic features that are very distinct with their race or the traditional values that seems not to diminish with the advancement of time, to top it all, Asian women ranks at the top of the world’s most gorgeous women of all times.
With happiness in relationships are concerned not many will argue with the fact as divorce rates go through the roof, and men seem to be more miserable than ever. One should be discreet in finding his match as to finding the types who to love and how to live life to the fullest. Does it really have to be an Asian woman? Well, it’s not just a matter of preference but a matter of choice.
Meeting and Dating Asian Women may be hard for a start because they are the kind of women who takes marriage seriously. Age sometimes is considered a gap, but to tell you the truth it has very little significance because it’s known in the east that with age comes with wisdom, knowledge, stability and experience. There are
those in society that may pass judgment on you and usually those are the miserable ones but will in the long run only boils down to one, happiness and contentment with the partner you’ve chosen.
those in society that may pass judgment on you and usually those are the miserable ones but will in the long run only boils down to one, happiness and contentment with the partner you’ve chosen.
The problem encountered by so many men nowadays is the undeniable truth about seeing a gorgeous Asian woman can be seen just about anywhere in this planet, the thought that they could just simply run to her. As it has a very low percentage of being that way. Meet and approach is how it is done. Spoken by so many from their experience as to the joy so many men have found when finding the Asian woman of their dreams. Many Asian women have been raised to fully appreciate the truly significant things in life.
With the tools available today, the very powerful internet, the very efficient mobile phone that finding and dating needs not spend thousands of dollars and that marrying a woman you’ve never met unless you want to is not impossible but doable. Just think about what you really want from a woman, about what you want in life, the things that woman can give you and that you may be surprised that all you need is simply the Asian woman of your dreams.
Monday, May 9, 2011
Admirable Traits in Men in the Eyes of a Filipina
There had been lots of happy marriages between a Filipina and other nationalities, you may even know couples from your neighborhood or you have a friend married to a Filipina and have witness their happy union. Our testimonials segment here in asiansbeauties.com is also full of stories from real life partners who started their story by meeting in online dating websites like ours and then continue on to live a happily married life. You can browse through these testimonials if you are still hesitant about contacting any Asian beauty that you find here on asiansbeauties.com.
In case you are curious as to what traits the Filipina women admire in men, here are our top answers:
Stability & Security
Most Filipinas are looking for stability and security for their future. You may be aware that life in the Philippines isn’t exactly a breeze. So a guy who can offer them that – stability and security - is very attractive in her eyes and will most likely be the one she will choose to be married to and honor for the rest of her life. What they offer you in return will be to take care of you, love and honor you.
One that genuinely cares about their family too
One of the most important things to a Filipina is family. Family comes first in many cases. So it will not be amiss if you show to her that you genuinely care about her family’s well-being too. You can do this by trying to get know immediate members of her family - know their name, try to
engage them in conversation when you meet them. And you’ll see she will admire and appreciate you more for the effort you are making just by trying to connect with the people who matters to her.
Faithfulness & Love
Unlike their western counterparts, Asians in general and Filipinas in particular are more conservative and idealistic in their views about faithfulness and love. Filipinas especially coming from the provinces are idealistic that sometimes it’s bordering on naiveté. When you tell them
that you love them, chances are they will believe it wholeheartedly.
In case you are curious as to what traits the Filipina women admire in men, here are our top answers:
Stability & Security
Most Filipinas are looking for stability and security for their future. You may be aware that life in the Philippines isn’t exactly a breeze. So a guy who can offer them that – stability and security - is very attractive in her eyes and will most likely be the one she will choose to be married to and honor for the rest of her life. What they offer you in return will be to take care of you, love and honor you.
One that genuinely cares about their family too
One of the most important things to a Filipina is family. Family comes first in many cases. So it will not be amiss if you show to her that you genuinely care about her family’s well-being too. You can do this by trying to get know immediate members of her family - know their name, try to
engage them in conversation when you meet them. And you’ll see she will admire and appreciate you more for the effort you are making just by trying to connect with the people who matters to her.
Faithfulness & Love
Unlike their western counterparts, Asians in general and Filipinas in particular are more conservative and idealistic in their views about faithfulness and love. Filipinas especially coming from the provinces are idealistic that sometimes it’s bordering on naiveté. When you tell them
that you love them, chances are they will believe it wholeheartedly.
When it comes to being faithful you can’t find fault with majority of Filipinas as their upbringing makes them honor their commitments in line with their cultural concept of ‘shame’ wherein as much as possible they will not do anything that will bring dishonor to their name and that of
their family and to be branded “unfaithful” creates a damaging social stigma that will affect her whole family, hence must be avoided and to do this they will remain faithful. However, this also makes them want a faithful partner.
their family and to be branded “unfaithful” creates a damaging social stigma that will affect her whole family, hence must be avoided and to do this they will remain faithful. However, this also makes them want a faithful partner.
Foreign Men and Filipinas give birth to great looking kids
Filipinos in general have this notion that a kid from a mixed marriage almost always looks pretty or handsome. This line of thought is further
supported by the fact that a lot of celebrities and personalities in the
Philippines are kids of a Filipina with a foreign husband. So this is something that is in your favor and will make you more attractive to these
beautiful ladies.
supported by the fact that a lot of celebrities and personalities in the
Philippines are kids of a Filipina with a foreign husband. So this is something that is in your favor and will make you more attractive to these
beautiful ladies.
Whether you are here in asiansbeauties.com in search for a friend, girlfriend or a wife, we can assure you that just by checking out the thousands of profiles of Asianbeauties on our site and contacting the women who caught your eye maybe your first step in finding a lasting and great relationship.
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