Why use online dating websites?

How many times have you ever tried to meet somebody through a blind date? Most likely it did not go so well considering that you are still looking for somebody out there. People will tell you that there are always fish in the sea but if you live in a small town or city then you are limited in your choices. Many people also do not have the time to go out every night in search of that special someone. For people that are looking for a better way to meet your soul mate, they should try going online and visiting an online dating website.

Dating websites provide one of the safest and easiest ways to meet somebody online. You are basically able to scan through thousands of people based off of the criteria that you provide until you find someone that is compatible with you. This provides you with a much better chance of meeting somebody special rather than going to a bar and trying to meet someone there. This also eliminates the terrible scare you get when you are meeting a blind date. Through a dating website you are able to find out boat loads about your potential mate and you are able to pick and choose who to message and who not to message. Basically, an online dating website provides you with much more options in the dating world. You will be more connected and much more likely to find the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Online websites are well worth the money it takes to sign up as well. You will actually save money in the end by going to a dating website because you do not have the spend the money on driving to meet with blind dates or driving around the city to a bunch of different bar or club locations. You will be able to spend your time more wisely and you will also be able to more effectively meet that someone that you want to spend your life with.

With so many dating websites out there at the moment it is not hard to get onto the computer and sign up for one. It takes less than an hour to make yourself a profile, depending on how much information you wish to write about yourself. Generally, the more information you provide the better because you will be able to meet potential matches better. There is no excuse for putting off joining an online dating website because of how simple and easy it really is. The faster that you sign up then the faster you will be able to meet that potential match. It may sound cliché but there could be somebody waiting for you out there right now. Eliminate the uncertainty of blind dates and the loneliness that comes with being single. Go onto an online dating website and meet the person of your dreams in a much faster and easier way then traditional dating! 

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Dating Online?

New to Online Dating? Trying to find the man or woman of your dreams through the Virtual World? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile

Some people don't believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough Responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. And then I often take them, real-time, to an Online Dating Site. I randomly start reading out profiles, and they cannot believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of spontaneity, of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in Online Dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous.

So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)

.."I am a funny, witty person...."

Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.

.."I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..."

A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to this..."

..."I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ...person."

Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile.

Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practicing Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.

..."I want a guy who can make me laugh..."

Comes across as negative-you sound slightly depressed if you need someone just to make you laugh. There’s plenty of stuff on the TV to make you laugh, and you are not looking for a joker, you are looking for a boyfriend, a mate...remembers?

..."I like dark haired men, but if you are blond and good-looking, write me anyway, maybe you can change my mind...."

Turn-off to blond men. Make up your mind, if you are looking for only dark haired men, just say that. Don’t play both sides of the coin, generally backfires. Better not to say anything if you are not sure.

..."I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..."

Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you won’t like going out with someone just because they don’t like walking the beach or watching TV with you). Your hobbies are where you put these things, and more specifically-e.g. camping, or watching basketball.

..."I am sexy, flirtatious,... I like kisses on my back, full body massages from my boyfriend/girlfriend..."

Generally speaking, keep the sexual innuendos out. You will have plenty of time to exchange many raunchy emails if you are addicted to writing sexual stuff... but in the first impression, keep it out. Think about it this way-would you say this to a guy or a girl in a bar who you meet for the first time? If not, then don’t say it in your Ad either.

..."I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL..."

Everyone is real. Basically, don’t worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but that’s over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.

..."I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..."
No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you don’t like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.